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Questions
Bahá'ís are frequently asked about:
Bahá'í Community Life
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1. Who are the Bahá'ís?
2. How do Bahá'ís
treat each other?
3. I have heard that Bahá'ís
welcome everyone. Is this really true?
4. Can I check out the community
in a more informal way, and see it for myself?
5. Is there a Bahá'í
"code of conduct"?
6. Are children, the elderly,
the disabled, etc. all part of the Bahá'í community?
7. Do Bahá'ís
get together socially?
8. How are Bahá'ís
involved with the community at large?
1. Who are the Bahá'ís?
Bahá'ís are everyone. Bahá'ís
come from all walks of life; from various cultures, races, backgrounds
and experiences. The Bahá'í Faith is the second most
wide-spread religion on earth (after Christianity). It has always
been intended for all people. A Bahá'í could be your
neighbour, or someone you would never have thought you would run
into. One of the fundamental values of the Bahá'í
Faith is an appreciation of diversity, be it of race, age, thinking,
approach or expression. Top
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2. How do Bahá'ís treat each other?
The Bahá'í Faith puts a strong emphasis
on treating all humanity with respect and kindness. Building a sense
of community, of caring, shared vision and trust is one of the highest
priorities of the Bahá'ís. In the Bahá'í
community, people are called on to treat one another with love and
patience. Bahá'ís are forbidden to engage in backbiting
or slander, and are told to treat one another in a spirit of fellowship
and harmony. The community is seen as an extension of the family
unit, and so Bahá'ís try to treat each other in this
same spirit of love and respect. Top
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3. I have heard that Bahá'ís welcome
everyone. Is this really true?
Bahá'u'lláh, the founder of the Bahá'í
Faith, made it very clear that everyone is welcome in the Bahá'í
Faith. This is not a religion that is exclusive or where the community
can decide whether or not to admit individuals. That said, people
are imperfect. There are times when our limits and areas of comfort
are stretched. Maybe a young punk rocker from England and an older
investment banker from Iran won't always see eye to eye. But this
is invaluable in building the community! Diversity is necessary
and should be celebrated! Bahá'ís are not perfect,
but are trying as sincerely and as tirelessly as they can. Bahá'ís
strive to put our principles and beliefs into action in our everyday
lives. Bear in mind, also, that every individual's voice is important
in the Bahá'í community. If you feel overlooked or
unhappy, you can (and should) bring it to the community's attention.
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4. Can I check out the community in a more informal
way, and see it for myself?
Of course! There are several ways to try and contact Bahá'ís
in your area. The toll free number: 1 (800) 22-Unite will invite
you to leave a message for Bahá'ís near you. They
will call you back. Bahá'í activities vary according
to population and area, but some standard activities might include
Sunday classes for children and/or adults, devotional meetings,
and "Firesides" or small meetings in an individual's home on different
topics. Top
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5. Is there a Bahá'í "code of conduct"?
Bahá'ís do have certain obligations in terms
of how they should conduct themselves. The Golden Rule that has
been seen in many religions throughout history applies to Bahá'ís.
Bahá'ís, too, are enjoined to prefer our neighbor
before ourselves. Bahá'ís are also called on to demonstrate
and develop different virtues. Some of these are patience, kindness
to animals, obedience, respect, love, service towards their fellow
man,trustworthiness and mercy. Bahá'ís may not engage
in backbiting or slander, and should at all times demonstrate fairness
and uprightness of character. Bahá'ís do not drink
alcohol and do not use illicit drugs. They value chastity, justice
and mercy. Bahá'ís are also reminded to be full of
joy and happiness and to remember the merits of humor! Top
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6. Are children, the elderly, the disabled, etc. all
part of the Bahá'í community?
Absolutely. Young children, the elderly, the disabled,
and people from all parts of the human family are part of the Bahá'í
community. Everyone is welcome, and every individual has a place
and a role to play. Top
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7. Do Bahá'ís get together socially?
Many Bahá'ís get together socially as well
as officially. Bahá'ís tend to form deep and lasting
relationships, and enjoy each other's company. All aspects of community
life have a social facet, but of course, people like to see each
other at other times, too. Top
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8. How are Bahá'ís involved with the
community at large?
Service to one's fellow man is a basic, fundamental principle
of the Bahá'í Faith. Every community will most likely
have a different way of being of service to their neighbors. Some
communities sustain large scale service projects such as parenting
classes, literacy training, institutes for the development of American
Indians, etc. Others are very small and might do things like volunteer
at homeless shelters or help out at youth centers. Each community
will have its own needs, abilites and approaches. Top
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